I have a problem with this litany.

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Rachel Umstrad
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I have a problem with this litany.

Post by Rachel Umstrad » Tue Mar 12, 2019 12:09 pm

9. I focus on my own contributions to situations instead of seeking fault with others.

I understand the meaning of it, and I agree in part. I think the wording, however, should be changed to

9. I focus on my own contributions to situations before seeking fault with others.

I think there are times when it is appropriate to look closer at what others are doing. An easy example: perhaps they are taking advantage of us. Perhaps your lover is insecure or clingy, and you want to help them overcome it. If the phrasing of this remains instead of, you run the risk of people taking it to mean you cannot ever bring up someone else's things. I think changing it to "before" is a better way.

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Re: I have a problem with this litany.

Post by Vandersexxx » Thu Mar 14, 2019 3:05 pm

I concur. I think it can be improved. Same way I just suggested an improvement to the Idea of Best Ideas.

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Re: I have a problem with this litany.

Post by Daniel » Sun Jun 23, 2019 3:44 pm

Good call. I have added this to the change log.
The hallmark of a fool is a mind that never changes.

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